Build Trust and Establish Rapport With Your Photographer
Knowing that you’re doing the session with professionals who have built their careers empowering women through amazing photographs can put you at ease. If you know that you are in good hands, it’s easier to relax and put your faith in them because you know that they will guide you, take care of you and make your experience as amazing as possible. Make sure to set an appointment with your team and let them know your ideas about the upcoming session. Talk to them about your concerns, your worries and what you’re feeling - they would love to know! They can use these conversations as a guide for when they work with you. If you have pegs of poses you want to try, show it to them too so they can give you tips on how you can make it work for yourself.
Practice Makes Perfect
When you’re doing something for the first time, it’s always scary. But when you’ve done something before, you feel more confident, more attuned and more flowing in your moves. The same is true for a boudoir session. You don’t need to have a “trial session” with other people, you can do this by yourself and in the privacy of your room! Try practising the smile you want or that pose you always wanted to try until you have built a sense of confidence in moving.
Schedule Time To Destress and Pamper Yourself
It’s always easier to do nerve-wracking things when you’re feeling relaxed and stress-free. In addition, you’ll look good if you feel good. What you feel on the inside always radiates on the outside and you’ll look your best when you feel your best. Before your session, schedule a time to do a mani-pedi session, a massage, or a spa day. If you’re planning to get a facial, tanning or waxing appointment, make sure to get them a few days before your boudoir session to make sure your skin isn’t red and irritated.
Shop For Comfortable Lingerie Pieces
During your session, make sure to bring pieces that you are comfortable with, not just when wearing but also when moving. You can expect different poses and styling during the shoot, and it will be more comfortable for you if you are wearing pieces that are the right size and fit for you. Moreso, make sure that the pieces reflect your personality, who you really are and what you want to see yourself in. Bring pieces that will bring the best out of you and highlight the amazing person that you already are.
Talk to those who have done it before!
One common misconception about boudoir sessions is that it only works for professional models or those with a particular body size, type and frame. The thing is, it’s for everyone! Whatever your size, profession or stage in life you are in, no one and nothing should stop you from getting a boudoir session if you want to. Talk to people who had done it before and let them share their experiences with you.
Ask around if some friends have already done it and what they did to get past their fears and apprehensions. Look for online groups of women who have done sessions before and are willing to share best practices. For all you know, there’s another woman out there who’s willing to give you that boost of confidence that you need.
What are you waiting for? Your amazing boudoir session is waiting for you! Contact the team at Avalon City Imaging, we would be honoured to capture your true beauty.
